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This is a space for dream words, love words, flying words, fall down, and get up words. First it begins inside your heart. Something moves, opens, frees itself. And now you feel a rhythm breaking it's long silence. This is going to be good. Be creative. Be generous. Be bold. For it is here that we begin to tell our story.

Saturday, March 30, 2013

Holi Holi

After much begging and pleading, I convinced Tiave to come to the Holi Festival of Colors and the Hare Krishna Temple in Spanish Fork.

He loved it.



Before.





After the 1st throw



At home, dusting off. Aren't we pretty?


After a super shower! 



Tuesday, February 12, 2013

Let's Review!

Alright everyone... here we go!



Baby Girl was born October 29th, 2012.





Auntie Lani married Uncle Pati on November 10th, 2012 and baby girl got a brand new dress for the occasion! We were a little nervous about taking her to the big party at only 12 days old, but she did wonderfully and we were so glad to make it!


She was blessed in my home ward on December 2nd, 2012



I went back to work December 3rd, 2012. I am still with the same company, but have moved into their payroll department. It's a lot of work and I hate being away from my baby girl, but we make it work for us and I enjoy what I do. Baby girl gets to play with my mom during the days while I am gone.

We bought our first home and moved in on December 22nd, 2012. Pictures to follow in a whole new post. I will be doing lots of home improvement over the next little bit and will post the progress as well! I am loving having our own house and really making it a home!

Hubby started a new job in web hosting and is very excited to be with a new company with new opportunities.

We are loving every moment of our lives and couldn't ask for more. 

2 Weeks

Snuggling with Daddy.

Dinner at Outback. Steak and Salad for Mom and Dad... Fingers for  Baby Girl.  (3months)

Cheering for Daddy!
Bowling with Friends.

Baby Girl started sitting up, laughing, and talking our ears off!
 Thanks for stoppin' in! See ya'll next time!

Monday, February 11, 2013

Leave of Absence

You'll have to excuse my long absence... If you remember... I had a baby.
Also between then and now I went back to work and bought a house.
It has been a crazy few months. But don't worry. I am back. I know you missed me :)

Later on I will be posting a round-up of the last few months activities; including Christmas, moving, baby, baby, friends, family, and more baby!










Happy to be back in the blogosphere! See ya'll later!

Wednesday, November 14, 2012

She's Here!






Savanna Renae Tuputeata Matagi
Born: October 29th, 2012, 7:51 a.m.
Weight: 7 lbs, 3 oz
Length: 20 inches
Apgar: 9 at 1 min. 9 at 5 min.








Around 11:30 p.m. on the 28th I noticed some bleeding, so we headed straight to the hospital. We checked right in and the nurses realized that the placenta had begun to pull away from the uterus. Then my water broke and the contractions began to get harder. They moved me to a labor and delivery room, let me go potty, then got me my epidural. Once it kicked in, I couldn't feel my contractions at all. Because of the placenta abruption, the nurses started me on pitocin to try to hurry things up a little bit. I labored peacefully and rested for the next 7ish hours. Early in the morning baby's girls heart rate suddenly dropped from the 150s to the 20's. The nurses quickly came in, got me on my hands and knees, and got an oxygen mask going. After what seemed like forever, her heart rate came right back up. They stopped the pitocin and I dilated from a 7 to a 10 in less than an hour. We pushed for about an hour to get her to crown, waited for the Dr. to come catch her, then pushed a couple more times and she was here! They took her and wiped her down while I finished up with the Dr. then they handed her right to Tiave who brought her to me. I couldn't have asked for a better experience and I wouldn't change a thing.



Wednesday, October 24, 2012

38 Week Appt - BIG NEWS

Monday was our 38 week check up with Dr. Judd. It went a little like this....

Greet the nurse - "Seems like I just saw you guys! Oh wait, I did!" haha we love our nurses at Dr. Judd's office! They're so friendly and helpful. We couldn't have asked for better people to help us along this journey!
Pee in a cup.. again.
Step on the scale - didn't gain anything this time. (a sign she's 'bout ready)
Talk to the nurse - I asked how long Dr. Judd will usually let you go past your due date if you go overdue. She said usually no more than a week because your placenta just isn't that great at it's job after 40 weeks. She also said in order to be induced you have to be what they call "inducable" meaning your body has to be showing signs that it is preparing for labor and delivery (dilating, effaced, etc..)
Went in to see Dr. Judd - He did a pelvic exam and declared that I am, indeed, inducable... already! We talked about our options. He said we could wait it out and see when she wants to come, or he could induce me anytime starting Nov. 1st. He suggested being induced because 1) Why would you want to be pregnant any longer than you have to? and 2) You can schedule it, go in, get your epidural, then be induced, and avoid as much pain as possible. We also discussed which hospital would best suit our needs for delivery. My insurance will cover UVRMC, Timpanogas, or Orem Community. Of the 3, Dr. Judd suggested Orem Community because they are a maternity focused hospital so they really know what they're doing. And they're only one floor so you don't ever have to move rooms.
Tiave & I chatted -  We decided to be induced on Nov. 1st so that he could plan to have plenty of time off work and so that I could finish out the week at work and still have time for last minute prep and sleep. We also decided that Orem Community was the place to be because... well, why not?
Scheduling time - We let the scheduling lady know we wanted to be induced on the first. She called us later that evening to let us know we were all set for 5 a.m. that day. Yuck. But we'll take it :) She should be here by dinner time.

Questions I keep getting:

1: Are you ready?
-Is this a trick question? I don't think you can really be "ready" for something like this. But we are as ready as we'll ever be I suppose. So... yes?
2: Do you still want her to come earlier than that?
-I thought so at first, but I'm really liking the plan we have set up and I really hope it stays the way it is.
3: Are you getting induced and going to Orem just because your Dr. said to?
-Yes and No. Yes because that would be a perfectly good reason to do what I'm doing. I trust my Dr. 100%. If I didn't... we'd have a problem. No because I did actually do my research on inductions and Orem Community hospital and came to my own opinion as well. It just so happens to match up with Dr. Judd's. So there.

So... instead of going in for our 39 week appt on Monday, we'll just meet Dr. Judd at the hospital at 5 a.m. next Thursday. We'll get checked in and comfortable. He'll give me my epidural, then an IV of oxytocin (the hormone naturally released by your body to put you into labor) We'll labor all day and she'll probably arrive just in time for dinner.
If you feel like visiting, that's probably fine. Just text me or Tiave and see how things are before you do, please :) We'd love to see everyone, but understand that it's going to be a taxing few days and we may need some time to ourselves as well.


Thursday, October 18, 2012

Pregnancy Pain: Let's Talk About It

Today I've decided to post a little about what I have learned about pregnancy.

Disclaimer: I am NOT and expert. I am simply sharing what I have learned from my Dr., other pregnant women, and the internet.

When you are pregnant, or looking to get pregnant you will have LOTS of questions. So, I'm going to address some of the questions I had and hope that I can be of help to some of you.

Let's start with my most recent discovery... Sciatic Nerve Pain.
Walking around the Zoo one day I started to have rather severe pain in my right thigh and butt cheek. For me, it felt like I had pulled a muscle... but then it went away. and came back. and went away. So at my next Dr's appt. I asked about it. Dr. Judd informed me that it was Sciatic Nerve Pain (Sciatica). He said it's very common during pregnancy and is caused by the baby's head putting pressure on your sciatic nerve.

So... how do you know if you have sciatica?
1: It can feel like a pulled muscle, your leg is falling asleep, or just plain hurt.
2: It is most likely only on one side, and is probably your right side (95% of the time anyway)
3: It comes and goes - not constant pain
4: It can range from uncomfortable to debilitating.

And.. how do you make it go away?
-You don't. But here are some tricks to find relief
1: Lie down on the opposite side of the pain to relieve pressure
2: Soak in a warm bath, then put a cold compress on the pain. The heat will relax your muscles, and the cold with draw away any inflammation.
3: Get a prenatal massage/chiropractic adjustment
4: Wear a maternity belt

When do you worry about it?
-You don't. It is not harmful to you or the baby, it just sucks.

Next on today's list... Pelvic Girdle Pain (PGP)
Lying in bed one night, I went to roll over onto my other side. After attempting to swing my legs over and experiencing bone shattering pain... I decided something was wrong. After lots of research I found that I had PGP and that I was fine... it just sucked. (seeing a theme here?)

So... how do you know you have PGP?
1: The pain will be generalized in your back and pelvis.
2: It's JOINT pain, not muscle pain
3: It will probably be accompanied by pain in your back and hips

And... how do you make it go away?
-You don't. You can try finding relief by...
1: Acupuncture
2: Place a heating pad on it
3: Wear a maternity belt when you'll be standing or walking - (this one worked GREAT for me)

When do you worry?
1: When your Dr. tells you to. If you have or think you have PGP let your Dr. know. He/She can monitor the pain and let you know if it is PGP or something else like Symphsis Pubic Disfunction. PGP is nothing to worry about, but SPD could be.



No matter the pain you're feeling, my best advice is to TALK TO YOUR DOCTOR. Every woman is different. Every pregnancy is different. It's better to call and ask about it and find out it's no big deal than to not ask about it and realize all too late that you have a real problem. Most problems - if addressed in a timely manner - can be handled and treated safely.

If you happen to be reading this blog and have questions about something going on in your pregnancy that you'd like more info on, let me know. Or if you think there's something pregnant women should be more educated on, I'd be happy to share what I know and find some more credible resources for you to check out as well!

Monday, October 15, 2012

37 weeks - Full Term Baby!

Today we had our 37 week appointment! Here's what my insides look like right about now. Gettin' kinda squishy in there!


At 37 weeks most Dr.'s consider you to be "full term" and it's safe for the baby to arrive any time now. So they tell you that and get your hopes all high in the sky that your little miracle could be here any day and then they bring you right back down with a "but 80% of first time moms go past their due date... so prepare to be pregnant a while longer. We'll check ya next week and see where we're at." Awesome.

The Dr.'s appt. today went a little like this...
I peed in a cup. Again.
I weighed in at a whopping 148 lbs - that's a gain of 32 lbs!
Blood Pressure - Still Normal
We got our results from the Group B strep culture - Negative! Woohoo! No need for antibiotics during delivery!
We listened to her heartbeat - Down to 126bpm
Dr. Judd felt around my belly and said she's still head down and in a great position!
Dr. Judd explained that what I thought was muscle pain is actually Sciatic Nerve Pain. And it'll only get worse as she gets heavier.
and
We scheduled our pelvic exam for next Monday. (at that point the Dr. will let us know if she looks like she's coming early or late or whatever. We're hoping I take after my mom and she decides to make her grand appearance at least a little early. As long as she's healthy.)

So there's the run down! Later this week: More on Sciatic Nerve Pain... and maybe we'll address other things that can scare the crap out of you but are really no big deal... and maybe some things that look like no big deal that you should really be concerned about. Oh the joys of first time moms!

I'm outta here for now! If you need me... you can probably find me on the trampoline ;)